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On The Move

Tuesday, December 5th, 2006

Santa SmantaPart of the reason I neglected the blog for a month or so was that my brain was otherwise consumed. You may remember that after ten years at the same job in Providence, I left to become the Design Director at another display company in Providence. It was a move up and I was very excited about running my own show. I've been happy here but another opportunity was presented to me. I got the chance to interview for a position at a very large, high end, audio company in MA which would reunite me with my friend Ben. It was a bit of a whirlwind experience but the short story is that I have a new job. I gave my notice at my present job late last week and my last day here will be next week.

This is a little bit of a career change as I won't be designing anymore but project managing instead. Its like going to the other side of the fence. I'll still probably be in touch with my current work mates, it will just be as a client. Its my first time working for a large corporation but I think I'm going to like it.

Its entirely likely that this blog will still be hard for me to maintain. Since leaving a job that I was bored silly at 6 months ago its amazing how much I actually work at work instead of screwing around. I will try though to be a little more regular with it.

I’m Ready for Christmas!

Monday, December 4th, 2006

Little Santa Aidan had an eventful weekend this week. he picked out his first Christmas tree on Saturday and saw Santa for the first time. Sunday he got to meet Santa and Frosty the Snowman for the first time while playing with a bunch of other kids. He also go his first glazed donut. Of course, along with that came daddy's first experience with a son acting like a meth freak. To top it all off, Sunday Aidan turned 11 months old. He's now in his twelfth month on the big blue marble and closing in on his second year.  I added a bunch of pictures from the party on Sunday in the new 11 month gallery as well as some of the shots we took for our Christmas cards.

Although he didn't care tremendously about the tree shopping, Aidan was a huge fan of the Sunday festivities. It had all the ingredients for success: little kids, noise, confusion, music, shiny things, and sugar. How could he go wrong? He was surprisingly nonchalant about Santa. He wasn't scared of him but he didn't have much time for him either. The girl dressed in the Frosty costume got a much warmer welcome. I'm convinced he would have left the place with Frosty without a second thought.

By far the most enthusiastic response came when he spotted his big cousin Haley. She's about 3 which is the same age as his buddy and other cousin Emma. He spends hours every day with Emma and is amused by her every move. He either thought Haley was Emma or just assumed that all blond, three year old girls are endlessly fascinating. The moment he saw her he rushed her and threw his arms around her. It would have been cute once but by the third time I thought we were going to have to break out the fire hose to separate them. Poor Haley was asking "Why does he keep doing that?"

At the end of the weekend everyone in the house was exhausted and in need of a nap. Only one of us got one of those though. 

Walking Tall

Thursday, November 30th, 2006

Trash Picker Well, here are almost at the 11 month mark for Aidan and I've let a month go by without writing. In my defense, its been a little bit of a crazy month. I've been in the process of getting a new job all month and it has consumed much of my non-Aidan time. Tack on a Thanksgiving at our house and a couple of radiator covers that needed to be built before Aidan gave himself an accordion shaped brand on his hands and there just hasn't much time to write.

Aidan is now walking. He took his first real, unassisted, steady steps about two weeks ago. With every day he gets more adventurous and stilled at his new vocation. This new found mobility makes him even harder to keep track of and more prone to fits. As he can get to more stuff, he seems to select more things he can't play with causing us to utter his new least favorite word "no". When we say it he just stares at us blankly, refusing to blink, defiant. He's waiting for us to back down or enforce our rule. Of course this is followed by us removing the cord/ monitor/ plug/ machete from his hand and him instantly bursting into tears. Bring it, kid because guess what, five minutes of your crying will beat 6 hours in an ER and a lifetime of you AND mommy pointing to a scar and saying "Remember when you let me play with the curling iron/lawn dart/bag of glass?" 

He is a lot more fun now. It seems every day he is more entertaining and more fun to play with. You can actually interact with him now instead of just trying to make him laugh. He's a big fan of music and is prone to "dancing" whenever he hears it. Dancing for Aidan consists mostly of him squatting like he needs to poop the stand up quickly over and over again o, if he's sitting, rocking back and forth like Rainman waiting for Whopner to come on. He's discovered he likes to hear me attempt playing the guitar but he likes it better when he can mangle the strings while I play.

I've added some more pictures but his new found walking skills make him harder to photograph. Partially, that's because we need two hands to remove objects from his fist and can't hold the camera. We're taking him Sunday to see Santa (my dad) for the first time. I have no idea what his reaction will be but it will be interesting. I'll be sure to post those pics as soon as I get them 

10 Months Old

Monday, November 6th, 2006

Standin Tall Aidan turned 10 months old Friday. I got distracted by the whole Pan Mass Challenge thing and completed neglected this important piece of news.

 

At 10 months he is now eating solid food, being weaned off his bottle, and starting to walk with the assistance of mobile toys. He’s actually taken a step or two here and there but he’s so anxious to walk that he tries to go too fast and wipes out. He will happily push a wagon around though.

 

Meal time is a horror show. He’ll about anything you put in front of him but will usually want what you’re eating instead, even if it’s the same thing (he gets that from mommy). He’s got a fondness for grilled cheese that we’ve just found and he especially loves trying to fit as much food into his mouth at one time as possible. He’s still a little tough on the sippy cup thing. He prefers a bottle but we’re trying to get him off of it. Our hope is that he’s onto solid foods completely by 1 year which will mean no more formula but whole milk instead.

 

He’s more fun every day. He laughs easily now and likes to play. Peek-a-boo is up there on the favorites but he also likes a good chase. He’s pretty fast on hands and knees so its not always easy to catch him!

 

There are definitely times I miss the baby but in the end, I wouldn’t trade my little boy for that baby.

Pedal My Ass Off

Thursday, November 2nd, 2006

That's a Good One Dad The problem with being a fat guy who used to be fit is that you know you can do it. There's no solace in the idea that maybe you're just big boned, have a glandular problem, or my new favorite, have a virus that makes you fat. I know crappy food makes me fat and exercise and good food makes me thin. Knowledge is a curse.

So what stops me from being fit? Will power. Getting and staying fit is a commitment of time and energy. It requires a devotion that I haven't been willing to give. I have managed to join a gym in the past few weeks and I've been going sporadically. The craziness of family life is always a convenient excuse for that poor routine but its not a reason. I need to go more regularly.

I tried, and failed to use this public forum as an impetus to lose weight before with The Fat Man Chronicles but it wasn't enough. I need something bigger to spur me on to weight loss obsession and I think I might have it.

This morning I watched a spot on the news about the Pan Mass Challenge submitting a check for 26 million dollars today. That's the take form this years Pan Mass Challenge. The money goes to cancer research and its raised by thousands of people who get on their bikes and ride routes between 68 and 192 miles over 2 days in August. This could be my ticket.

The Pan Mass Challenge would be just that, a challenge. First, its a financial commitment. You need to raise $3300 in sponsorship to ride. Second there's the obvious fitness requirement. If I do this it has to be all the way. That's Sturbridge to Provincetown in two days, 192 miles. I could do the shorter 68 mile route but I could probably ride that now. Sure I'd cough blood and see spots for half the ride and wouldn't be able to walk for 6 or 7 days afterward but I could do it. 192 miles on the other hand, I'd get tired driving that far right now.

Given my dad's recent health concerns and my recent purchase of pants with the number 4 in the wrong spot on the size label, I think its important not just to get healthy but to use the good health that I've been blessed with to try and help those who weren't. Let's face it, there are a lot of people who spend a lot more time on fitness than me that get hit with cancer. That's just not fair.

So, while this is not a declaration (this is a big deal and requires more than 15 minutes of thought) of my intention to participate, don't be surprised if I come to you looking for a donation in the not so distant future.